Sunday, May 20, 2018

Happy Birthday

The Home Team: Pamula Daniel, Anil (Anibob), Susee (Chanty),
Victoriamma, Suha (Chelly) and Pastor M. Benjamin

On May 20, 1941 in Narendrapuram, Andhra Pradesh India—our beloved Susee Mable (Chanty) was born. May 20th was as blessed a day for her parents Pastor M. Benjamin and Victoriamma, as it was for Dad, Anil and me. Mum blessed us with her radiant light and unconditional love and remains, as ever, the centre of our family and world. What did we ever do to deserve her? I'm not sure but am so grateful to have loved her and been loved by her and to know that our love still endures.

Happy birthday darling Mummy. Love you forever.

Posted by: Suhasini

Thursday, May 17, 2018

Sangareddy 1972


Susee Mable (centre) with Anil (far left),
nephews, Rajini's sister and Sasikala

Whether it was her son or daughter, her patients, her nieces and nephews, babysitters or children in the community; my mother Susee Mable was a beacon of light and comfort to all. She was a mother and a safe space rolled in one. She was born with a maternal instinct and the ability to selflessly and unconditionally give her love, time and assistance without judgment.

The photograph above, taken in Sangareddy, India in 1972 is a classic in our collection of family photographs. It not only displays my mother's gentle and timeless beauty but the host of children who were always happy and safe in her presence. The two nephews pictured above, in fact begged my father to accompany him on the two hour bus journey into Sangareddy just to spend time with my mother. She was a wonderful aunt. She guarded her young relatives with her wings and showered them with affection. Mum even went out of her way to cook for (and feed) them with whatever dish their hearts desired.

My brother and I were inordinately fortunate to have her as our mother but so were the many children who came across her blessed path.

Posted by: Suhasini

Tuesday, April 24, 2018

Son

"Thou art thy mother's glass and she in thee
Calls back the lovely April of her prime."
—Shakespeare (Sonnet III)



Posted by: Suhasini

Friday, April 13, 2018

In Memoriam

Susee Mable: May 20, 1941 - April 13, 2015

When Great Trees Fall


by Maya Angelou

"When great trees fall,
 rocks on distant hills shudder,

lions hunker down

in tall grasses,

and even elephants

lumber after safety.



When great trees fall

in forests,

small things recoil into silence,

their senses

eroded beyond fear.



When great souls die,

the air around us becomes

light, rare, sterile.

We breathe, briefly.
Our eyes, briefly,

see with

a hurtful clarity.

Our memory, suddenly sharpened,

examines,

gnaws on kind words

unsaid,

promised walks

never taken.


Great souls die
and
 our reality, bound to

them, takes leave of us.

Our souls,

dependent upon their

nurture,

now shrink, wizened.

Our minds, formed

and informed by their

radiance,

fall away.

We are not so much maddened

as reduced to the unutterable ignorance

of dark, cold

caves.



And when great souls die,

after a period peace blooms,

slowly and always
 irregularly. Spaces fill

with a kind of
 soothing electric vibration.

Our senses, restored, never

to be the same, whisper to us.
 
They existed. They existed.
 
We can be. Be and be
 better. 
For they existed."


Posted by: Suhasini

Monday, April 02, 2018

Niagara Falls 1979

Suha, Ethel and Susee
(early 1979) at Niagara Falls

Posted by: Suhasini
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